Time for thoughts: * Friendship

Hey cuties,

It's been a while since I sat here and wrote about some every day problems that we encounter in our life.
So I made some time today to talk to you guys about a new topic.

Today's topic is going to be about friendship.
Can we explain what friendship means?
Maybe it's the relationship you have with a person which respects each other or knowing a person really well that you can finish each others sentences.
Well it isn't easy to explain since friendship has a different meaning for every person, but we all know there are some things that you should watch out for in a person to know if they are really your friend.

At first when you meet someone, you may know if you want to become friends with them or not.
Since most of us (even if you don't want to accept) look at the exterior of the person and then at the interior.
But what we should do is start knowing the person and then decide if they are what we are looking for.

When can you really trust a person?
In your lifetime you confront allot of problems that we often need some help to deal with them.
There are people that will be there for you to help you along the way. They will talk to you to keep your mood up and they will keep you busy so you don't think about the problems.
Other way to find out is  when you have a boyfriend that is cheating. If that person who knows come to you and tells you what is going on. They are trustworthy, but that is if you like for them to tell you those kind of information.
There are allot of more ways to find out if a person is trustworthy.

We all know there are good friends and bad friends.
I don't mean about friends that wants to do bad with you, but I mean friends that have a bad influence on you.
The good ones are the ones that influence you to do good things and have a positive attitude.
We all have these kinds of friends, but we  should know who we are to become friends with them.
Because if we are weak they might influence you in the negative way and that would be so bad for your future.

And we know the fake friendships. People that try to be your friend just the get benefit out of you.
Yeah those ones exist to!
Sometimes they are easy to recognize, others are so good in their game that you don't even sees it.

So i have to say when you call someone a friend at least think 2 or 3 times before you say that, because you may think they are but really they aren't.
It's not bad to sometimes test your friends to see if they are for real.

I'm gonna stop writing now since this is getting really long.

See you guys soon,
Olyboly